I am a mature Domme and therefore prefer MADAME to Mistress, Lady, Dominatrix, or Miss.

My interests have primarily been in the artistic and somatic realms.

I have studied in Canada, the US, Europe, Costa Rica and many parts of India, and am certified in Hatha and Vinyasa yoga, Tantric, sports and Lomi Lomi massage, experienced in Buddhist meditation, Vipassana and Pranayama breath work, level 1 (Shoden) Reiki. Outside of the dungeon, I am an IFBB bikini pro, a former fetish model, dancer, burlesque entertainer. I’ve had five decades on the planet; I bring a little bit of everything to our time together.

I’m an avid traveller, speak French and English fluently, am a natural born redhead, with green/hazel eyes and fair freckled skin. I am firm, strong and tall 5”10 (177.8cm) and wear a size 9 (40) shoe. I measure 36DD on top, 29 waist and 39 hips, and I am about a size 10. I have no implants , piercings, enhancements or tattoos.

For Domme sessions, my wardrobe is primarily silk and satin business wear, paired with a classic designer pump. You can also request latex and high boots. You may request stockings and garters with either style.

For the foot/leg connoisseur; if you are seeking fully fashioned stockings, you must include this in your booking request.

If you’ve requested any kind of Massage, Tantric Massage, Red Tantra or BondaZen requests, where oil is involved, unless part of a custom booking request, you will usually find me wearing a skirt and blouse, with a simple sexy lace bodysuit underneath my clothes, revealed once you are on my table.

I love witnessing first time experiences with the adventurous. Please be sure to let me know of any reservations/limits/boundaries you have.

I ask that you be sober for our time together. I will immediately end our session if I feel you are under the influence of drugs, including THC, or have consumed too much alcohol prior to or during our meeting.

I do not accept big long heavily scripted role plays.

I choose not to share my face publicly, as AI misuse and frequent travel make that a risk. If you wish to see my face, (which is arguably my best asset), book me.

I offer many variations of spending time together. Half day or full day or bound overnights are possible.

I will not see you unless you send me identification and a deposit. Do not message me if you are not prepared to do so.

Tell me in advance if leaving a few marks on you is permitted.

Excessive or superfluous emails will not be read. Please read all details. Asking me questions to which the answsers can be easily found here will be ignored.

Safe words are established before play.

Cancellation within 48 hours will result in a forfeited deposit, as will excessive, time wasting emails. In the event of unforeseen circumstances, and at my discretion, I may apply this to a future booking, within one month of our original meeting. Refunds will be either $100 or $200 of the original amount, as banking fees are covered by the rest.

Your hygiene is probably the biggest determining factor to my wanting to get close to you. But please don’t wear excessive perfume or body spray. If you haven’t vigorously scrubbed all skin surfaces and all your crevices with soap and a washcloth, you aren’t truly clean. Nail care, deodorant, teeth, grooming in general are also a must. You’d think these rather off-putting details wouldn’t be necessary to bring up here, and I really wish it wasn’t necessary to bring up. But you’d be surprised just how common this problem is, even with the young, older, wealthy, the athletic, the mature, the successful. Blame your mother, blame chronic lack of time, I don’t know, but it’s a very real issue. So, don’t give me a reason to hold back with you!

Westerners have come to associate Tantra with Erotic Massage - however that understanding has evolved on this side of the planet, that’s indeed also what I do. I am truly certified in Tantric studies, meditation and breath work, along with many other disciplines related or closely tied.

When you book me, you get a blend of traditional techniques, plus, the elements you’re looking for in a sensual provider. And let’s be real: while we’ll go deep, the conversation will be sexy and fun.

I maintain an elegant, private and discreet studio, thoughtfully appointed for massage sessions, with a beautifully stocked bathroom and every amenity you may need for a comfortable, indulgent experience. Or, for a custom visit to you, for something with a little less focus on the massage and more personal, I can also make a house call to your 4-5 star downtown hotel.

All my Tantra massages are breath guided, chakra inspired, and involve edging. I offer two way touch, at my pace and discretion, for a truly slow, immersive and connected experience.

I am fully present for each minute we are together, and my joy comes from watching you engage, relax and truly lose yourself in pleasure.

If that intrigues you, I invite you to visit my other site and discover what that balance feels like for yourself. You can book here under Direct or visit

https://www.sofiasomer.com/

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