Custom Experiences

Custom Rates

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Domme experiences are bespoke, custom rated, dependent on your proclivities and length of time with me. Experiences are crafted with absolute intention and held to an uncompromising standard for a discerning (new or experienced) clientele. I am fully present and attentive for every excruciatingly delightful minute. I have a particular penchant for tease and denial, percussive play, and sensuous play.

    • Cage

    • CBT chair

    • Sex Swing

    • Spanking Bench

    • St. Andrews Cross

    • Suspension Hoist

    • Massage Table

    • Floor Mats

    • Bound and ignored

    • Breath play/smothering

    • Overnight Bed Bound

    • Bound and teased

    • Caged

    • Caged and ignored

    • Chastity Cages

    • Full body plastic wrap (mummification)

    • Sex Swing

    • St. Andrews Cross

    • Suspension Hoist

    • Wrist/ankle cuffs

    • Cock and Ball Stocks

    • Ball sack weights

    • CBT

    • CBT chair

    • Corporal punishment

    • Face slapping

    • Nipple play

    • Percussive implements

    • Spanking Bench

    • Spanking OTK

    • Trampling

    • Body Worship

    • Boot Worship

    • Foot Play

    • Heel Worship

    • Role play – various

    • Stocking/Feet Worship

    • Tease and Denial

    • Trampling

    • Facesitting (covered)

    • Humiliation and SPH

    • JOI

    • Anal /Oral training

    • Electro-stim

    • Nipple play

    • Percussive implements

    • Edging

    • Face slapping

    • Fisting

    • Foot Play

    • Golden

    • Pegging

    • Sounding

    • Spitting

    • Trampling

Other Experiences

Set Rates

BondaZen; This is my version of Bondassage. It’s where sensation becomes meditation; a sensually charged experience that begins with a bound surrender on my table. It encompasses a variety of sensations; hot wax, feathers, satin, my body, my magic hands, nipple stim, vibrations, soft floggers. Harder play can be added if you request it; sounding, percussive instruments, e-stim, clips and clamps. I offer some two way touch, at my pace and discretion, for a fully immersive experience. After I set you free, a sensual edging massage with a long awaited happy ending will take you into bliss. I take great care to curate this experience, guided by your interests and your reactions. *Requires a minimum of 1.5 hours.

Red Tantra; If you find yourself drawn to an otherworldly experience, my Red Tantra can be experienced (only for those prepared and squeaky clean). This begins with my signature Sensual Tantric Massage and progresses to Perineum Massage, Root Chakra Play, Penetrative Prostate Massage and/or Pegging. On my table, in my swing, on my bench or all three. I offer some two way touch, at my pace and discretion, for a fully immersive experience. Anal play is a highly charged sensation and requires trust; it can be a euphoric experience from this aspect alone. In my practice, prolonging pleasure and deep breathing are key, and the build up to a finale is carefully timed. I take great care to curate the perfect experience guided by your interests and your reactions.

Tantric Massage; This is my signature Sensual Tantric massage, combining elements of Sports, Lomi Lomi, Deep Tissue, Reflexology, Muscle Release and Meditative Healing Touch (Reiki) massage on your back. When I turn you over and turn up the heat with my hands and my body, guided deep breathing returns and the erotic begins with various techniques such as Sensual Touch, Teasing, Heart Melt, Lingham massage and Edging to an unbearably happy ending. I offer some two way touch, at my pace and discretion, for a fully immersive experience.

  • 1 hour // 500

  • 1.5 hours // 600

  • 2 hours // 700

  • 2.5 hours // 800

  • 3 hours // 900

  • I am a mature Domme and therefore prefer MADAME to Mistress, Lady, Dominatrix, or Miss.

  • My interests have primarily been in the artistic and somatic realms.

    I have studied in Canada, the US, Europe, Costa Rica and many parts of India, and am certified in Hatha and Vinyasa yoga, Tantric, sports and Lomi Lomi massage, experienced in Buddhist meditation, Vipassana and Pranayama breath work, level 1 (Shoden) Reiki. Outside of the dungeon, I am an IFBB bikini pro, a former fetish model, dancer, burlesque entertainer. I’ve had five decades on the planet; I bring a little bit of everything to our time together.

    I’m an avid traveller, speak French and English fluently, am a natural born redhead, with green/hazel eyes and fair freckled skin. I am firm, strong and tall 5”10 (177.8cm) and wear a size 9 (40) shoe. I measure 36DD on top, 29 waist and 39 hips, and I am about a size 10. I have no implants , piercings, enhancements or tattoos.

  • For Domme sessions, my wardrobe is primarily silk and satin business wear, paired with a classic designer pump. If you’d prefer, you can also request latex and high boots. You may request stockings and garters with either. For the connoisseur; if you are seeking fully fashioned stockings, you must include this in your booking request.

    If you’ve requested any kind of Massage, Tantric Massage, Red Tantra or BondaZen requests, where oil is involved, you will usually find me wearing a dress with a simple sexy lace bodysuit underneath my clothes, revealed once you are on my table.

  • I love witnessing first time experiences with the adventurous. Please be sure to let me know of any reservations/limits/boundaries you have.

  • Please know that in my Ruby Den Dungeon, while many wonderful and exciting things happen, I am not a full service provider.

    I offer many variations of spending time together. Half day or full day or bound overnights are possible.

    I ask that you be sober for our time together. I will immediately end our session if I feel you are under the influence of drugs, including THC, or have consumed too much alcohol prior to or during our meeting.

    I choose not to share my face publicly, as AI misuse and frequent travel make that a risk. If you wish to see my face, (which is arguably my best asset), book me.

    I will not see you unless you send me identification and a deposit. Do not message me if you are not prepared to do so.

    Tell me in advance if leaving a few marks on you is permitted.

    Excessive or superfluous emails will not be read. Please read all details. Asking me questions to which the answsers can be easily found here will be ignored.

    Safe words are established before play.

    Cancellation within 48 hours will result in a forfeited deposit, as will excessive, time wasting emails. In the event of unforeseen circumstances, and at my discretion, I may apply this to a future booking, within one month of our original meeting. Refunds will be either $100 or $200 of the original amount, as banking fees are covered by the rest.

    Your hygiene is probably the biggest determining factor to my wanting to get close to you. But please don’t wear excessive perfume or body spray. If you haven’t vigorously scrubbed all skin surfaces and all your crevices with soap and a washcloth, you aren’t truly clean. Nail care, deodorant, teeth, grooming in general are also a must. You’d think these rather off-putting details wouldn’t be necessary to bring up here, and I really wish it wasn’t necessary to bring up. But you’d be surprised just how common this problem is, even with the young, older, wealthy, the athletic, the mature, the successful. Blame your mother, blame chronic lack of time, I don’t know, but it’s a very real issue. So, don’t give me a reason to hold back with you!

  • Westerners have come to associate Tantra with Erotic Massage - however that understanding has evolved on this side of the planet, that’s indeed also what I do. I am truly certified in Tantric studies, meditation and breath work, along with many other disciplines related or closely tied.

    So when you book me, you get a blend of traditional techniques, plus, the modern erotic elements you’re looking for in a sensual provider. And let’s be real: while we’ll go deep, I’m not adverse to sharing a drink with you afterwards, in my fully stocked bar in my studio! You are after all, booking a good time!

    All my Tantra massages are breath guided, chakra inspired, and involve edging. I offer two way touch, at my pace and discretion, for a truly slow, immersive and connected experience.

    I am fully present for each minute we are together, and my joy comes from watching you engage, relax and truly lose yourself in pleasure.

    If that intrigues you, I invite you to visit my other site and discover what that balance feels like for yourself. You can book here under Direct or visit

    https://www.sofiasomer.com/

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